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Short Giving Advice That Has The Ability To Change All Areas Of Your Life




How can giving advice help change your life? I'm sure you know that it's important to give. And once you start earning more and making six figures you'll be sure to give back right?

This, my friend, is how most people think. It's perfectly OK if you think this way as well. You simply haven't learned yet the truth. You haven't learned that giving actually automatically allows you to receive the things that you desire.

You don't fully understand how important giving is, and why it has to be done first before you can ever expect to receive something worthwhile.

This is what you are about to learn.

This article could potentially be the most important article you have ever read. Knowing and understanding everything on this page will be sure to give you all of the tools you need to start changing your life immediately. We will talk about giving, both the how and why, and hopefully convince you to start doing more of it immediately.

I can't take the credit for the ideas below. These laws and ideas are based on the book The Go-Giver. A very short story about a man named Joe who learns the five laws of success that I am about to discuss with you.

I encourage you to read these laws. You need all five in order for them to work (isn't that what they always say)!

Once you learn and understand these laws, I promise it will make a difference in your life. It only takes a few minutes of your time to learn them. And the reward could be a lifetime of abundance and happiness...

Law Of Value


The first giving advice that you must follow is that of value. First, allow me to provide you a very important definition:

True worth - the amount you give compared to how much you take in payment

Whether you realize it or not, this is really the secret of all secrets. Provide as much value as you possibly can. Whether or not you directly get paid for the value you provide.

The way the world works is actually the direct opposite of what everybody thinks. Everyone believes (or wants to believe) that you can start receiving before you give anything. Dead wrong. You must give something of value before you ever start to receive payment of any kind.

I've written more about this misunderstanding with money and success, but for now, simply understand that you must give before you should ever expect to receive.

The more you give, the more potential you have of receiving.

If you have a job, you must give your time and energy before you ever should expect to get a paycheck. You must put in hard work and effort before you can ever expect to do 100 push ups. Isn't it weird how this works?

Everything you receive in life only comes after you have done something else.

If you want to earn a fortune, or simply make a living, you must give and provide value to others. How much money you earn, is based entirely on the...

Law Of Compensation


The first law of value is an important law. It tells you how much you can potentially earn. It doesn't, however, tell you how much specifically you will earn. That is where the law of compensation comes into play.

The law of compensation tells us that your income is determined by how many people you service and how well you service them.

Notice the two important factors here. How many and how well you give to others. Doctors only help one person at a time (at least they should), but they help them very well. They provide patients with medical help that improves their health and sometimes saves their life.

This is why doctors are paid so much. Their many years of schooling has allowed them the ability to give people an exceptional service in the form of treating illness.

Some people excel more on the other side, that of giving to many people. The best example of this is that of a business owner. Let's think of the owner of McDonald's. Now, this person's service isn't nearly as valuable as a doctor. It doesn't take years of schooling to be able to cook a hamburger. But what McDonald's does is crank out hundreds and thousands of hamburgers a day at each one of their restaurants.

McDonald's gives a small amount of service to an incredibly large amount of people. So they are compensated very highly for this as well.

In both of these examples, they also have a nice combination of giving to both many and well. A doctor will not be compensated very much if they don't provide their great service to a number of people. Similarly, the McDonald's owner will not be compensated much if they give terrible burgers to a large number of people. Eventually, everyone would stop going!

So if you want to be compensated for all of this giving you are about to do, think about how many people you will be able to serve and how well you can serve them.

You can get by with emphasizing one or the other. But giving something that  combines both will provide you with the most compensation! Once you learn this, you must master the...

Law Of Influence

In order to give effectively, and to achieve everything you want in life, you must be able to influence others.

The beautiful thing about influencing others is that it's easy once you know how it's done. It basically works automatically once you know it's secret. And this secret is basically the opposite of what everybody thinks it is. So here it goes...

You ability to influence others is based on how abundantly you place other people's interests first.

This may not seem very important, but it is. In order to receive anything you want in life, you must put other people's interests first. If you want to become wealthy, you must think of how you can serve others in such a way that people will be willing to pay you for the value you've provided.

That's an important point that I want to stress again. To become wealthy...

You must think of a way to serve others so that people will pay you for the value you provide!

This comes in so many different shapes and sizes. Which is why such a wide variety of people are wealthy. And with the exception of the lottery winners, they all have this valubable trait in common. From the basketball player to the salesmen. They all provide some sort of value to others.

So what can you give? More than you think right now with the...

Law Of Authenticity

If you are worried about how to give, or how you can provide value, this law is for you. The law of authenticity simply states that the best gift you can offer to others is yourself.

You are a unique individual. Nobody out of the several billion people on this planet is exactly like you. It's hard to believe, but it's true.

You have so much to offer another person. Whether it be your time (which is the most valuable thing of all) or some unique quality or skill that you can provide. You have something that is valuable whether you realize it or not!

Most people earn money in this world based on giving their time alone. Flipping burgers does not require much skill. But you have to pay someone who is willing to devote their time to do it.

It's when you combine your time with a unique ability that few people have is when you start earning a fortune.

Use the law of authenticity to understand that their is more in this world you can offer than you realize! Then finally, you can use the...

Law Of Receptivity

So you have decided that you are going to just give and give and give. Which is certaily a good thing! But you're selfish. I understand. You want something in return for all of this hard work of giving.

This is where the law of receptivity comes in.

Basically, giving and receiving is like inhaling and exhaling. You can't have one without the other. It's basically impossible to give without receiving something in return. As long as you stay open to the receiving part.

If you think about it, when you are giving something, somebody or something else is automatically receiving. And when so many other people are receiving, it's only a matter of time before people are giving to you, and it's you that is the one that's receiving.

The secret to everything you want in life lies in your ability to give.

A pretty good book states that "give and you shall receive." You can live your life by these short few words and I can almost assure you that you will live a happy life, both spiritually and financially. As long as you follow this final law, and be open to the receiving.








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